Experiences of Elder Cole in the Philippines from July 2013 to July 2015.
Sunday, November 24, 2013
My new companion is Elder Villanueva! He is from the same batch of
Elder Manicdo so both of my tatay's will go home at the same time. He's
from Ilooiloo which is close to where Judy is from. This guy is so
funny, he has so much energy and he I know he truly cares about me.
We've only been together for a little less than a week now and I can
already see a big progression in my Tagalog thanks to him! Almost
every second of the day he is asking me what stuff is in Tagalog and if I
don't know he tells me. About our work.... well this week has had a
lot of punts! We even had one day where we weren't able to teach one
lesson! We have one difficult area; there aren't a lot of members here
so it's hard to get member present lessons along with being able to
teach single women. But Ann Bon (one of our progressing investigators)
finally came to church this last week and she looked so excited! Her
boyfriend Rading is a less-active member and his mother came to church
as well. Rading even wore a white shirt and tie. He only had one tie
so I gave him two of mine; I just can't not want to help these people.
They've changed my life. A family like the Saqullo's only comes around
once in a great while. But yesterday we gave a blessing to a RC Brother
Benjamin. He's 89 years old and he is the nicest person I have ever
met in my life. He doesn't know Tagalog very well (He speaks Ilookano or
however you spell it) but yet he still comes to church every week. It
was a very humbling moment when I walked into the room and saw him lying
on the bed with the room lit by candle light. He hadn't eaten anything
for two days and he didn't even have enough strength to sit up so Bro.
Olivar had to help him while we gave him the blessing. I almost cried
during the blessing because I really do care about this man; when you
look into his eyes it's like you're looking at the Savior. They're
filled with love and compassion for everyone. These people are defiantly very special to our Father in Heaven, you know it by even just looking at these people.
Sunday, November 17, 2013
Well I have officially completed my training!!! It's a really weird
thought thinking that I've already been on my mission for 4 months now.
Elder Manicdo is being transferred tomorrow and I truly am going to
miss this Elder. He's been a great example to me and has given me a new
insight on missionary work. This week has been really rough to get
lessons because everyone seems to be busy or not at home. But on the
bright side Elder Manicdo and I have gotten 8 new investigators this
week so now our teaching pool is finally at a decent size. Opening a
new area is very difficult; especially when your area is far from the
church so people have a really hard time attending church. It's about
50 pesos per head total just to attend church so it's not very cheap.
This part of the reason why we have a lot of investigators and very few
progressing investigators. The highlight of the week came on Saturday
for Andrew's baptism! He is a very special young man; he completely
turned his life around in order to be baptized. He kept every
commitment without hesitation and always was very willing to
participate. When I stood in the water with him I truly felt the love
that our Heavenly Father has for His children. After the baptism he
told me that I was his idol because even though I don't know the
language very well, I tried my best to teach in a way that he could
understand and that he truly felt like I loved and cared about him. I'm
not going to lie I started to tear up when he said that. But he also
said that he's preparing to serve a mission in a year! I couldn't be
more happy with my decision to serve a mission. Hands down this is the
hardest thing I've ever done in my life, but this is easily the most
rewarding thing that I've ever done. I love you all and I'm grateful
for your influence in my life. Take Care!! Mahal na Mahal Kayo! May
God be with you till we meet again.
Doing what I Love! Basketball!!
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
Thankfully typhoon Yulanda really didn't do a whole lot of damage to our
area. We didn't have electricity for a day but that was the worst of
it. The winds were pretty fierce and it rained off and on for the whole
day so we had to stay inside all day which was really boring. I don't
know why any missionary in his right mind would give up working to stay
inside all day long. All I can say that it is definitely a different
experience being involved in "One of the worst calamities in Philippines
history". On a different note; we have two baptisms this week for
Andrew and Diana and I am so excited for it! This is the last full week
of my training so I'm glad I get to end it on a good note. It's going
to be hard leaving Elder Manicdo, I love this guy with all of my
heart. He has taught me so much about how to be a good missionary and
he has also played a huge role (along with the Spirit of course) in
learning the language. At this point in time I can finally lead all of
the lessons comfortably and I can hold a steady conversation for a while
until people get the impression that I know Tagalog better than I
actually do and start speaking faster than I can translate. But this
week has had it's ups and downs. A big down was the Typhoon of course
so we couldn't work for a day. But even a super typhoon can't stop the
work from progressing. On Sunday when we were tracting; Elder Manicdo
and I met a family who owned a farm and lived a very modest life. They
had 8 people living in a small three room home with sheets for dividers
which is very common here. When we started to teach a very special
spirit came into the lesson. After the lesson Elder Manicdo told me to
invite them to be baptized and in my mind I thought "You're crazy, we
just met these people today". But when I did, two of the children
accepted the invitation and the nanay said that after she prayed about
it she would let us know her answer. It was another experience that
testified to me of how many people the Lord is preparing in his
vineyard; all we need to do is to pick them off of the bush.
Monday, November 4, 2013
Dear Family and Friends,
This week has been one that I will not easily forget. First off Elder Manicdo and I still haven't moved into our apartment yet! They're having some problems with the contract etc. so we still have to travel 40 minutes just to get to our area. But on the good end of things Elder Manicdo and I have gained 8 new investigators this week and I'm so excited to be able to teach all of them. On another good note Elder Manicdo and I have two baptisms on November 16th and Andrew asked be to be his "Baptizer", Diana (our other investigator) asked Elder Mac. But the highlight of the week came just last night (Nov. 3rd). We've been teach a less active family in our ward and their son Rading has a girlfriend who's a non-member and lives with his family because she has family problems. We've only been teaching Sister Ann Bon for about two weeks and she doesn't have a big religious background so we have had to take the lessons really slow and try to make the doctrine as simple as we could. But last night Elder Manicdo had me extend the Baptismal invitation and she accepted!! It was one of the greatest things to happen so far on my mission. The expression on her face was priceless when she accepted the invitation; it was as if there was a new light that came into her eyes. Afterwards she pulled me to the side and told me of "How Talented I am at Tagalog". It really touched me; and I must be a big softy now because I started to tear up. I think there must have been dust in my eye or something like that ha ha. I am so grateful to have been called to this mission because I have met some of my dearest friends and I am among the people of one of the greatest nations in all of the world. I am so grateful for all of the support that you've given to me and I miss you all greatly! Mahal ko Kayo! May God be with you till we meet again.
This week has been one that I will not easily forget. First off Elder Manicdo and I still haven't moved into our apartment yet! They're having some problems with the contract etc. so we still have to travel 40 minutes just to get to our area. But on the good end of things Elder Manicdo and I have gained 8 new investigators this week and I'm so excited to be able to teach all of them. On another good note Elder Manicdo and I have two baptisms on November 16th and Andrew asked be to be his "Baptizer", Diana (our other investigator) asked Elder Mac. But the highlight of the week came just last night (Nov. 3rd). We've been teach a less active family in our ward and their son Rading has a girlfriend who's a non-member and lives with his family because she has family problems. We've only been teaching Sister Ann Bon for about two weeks and she doesn't have a big religious background so we have had to take the lessons really slow and try to make the doctrine as simple as we could. But last night Elder Manicdo had me extend the Baptismal invitation and she accepted!! It was one of the greatest things to happen so far on my mission. The expression on her face was priceless when she accepted the invitation; it was as if there was a new light that came into her eyes. Afterwards she pulled me to the side and told me of "How Talented I am at Tagalog". It really touched me; and I must be a big softy now because I started to tear up. I think there must have been dust in my eye or something like that ha ha. I am so grateful to have been called to this mission because I have met some of my dearest friends and I am among the people of one of the greatest nations in all of the world. I am so grateful for all of the support that you've given to me and I miss you all greatly! Mahal ko Kayo! May God be with you till we meet again.
Monday, October 28, 2013
It sounds like things at home are going very well and I look forward to
hearing many more things from you guys. Well I'm almost halfway through
my 2nd transfer and it feels like it just
began. It's going to be very hard leaving Elder Manicdo, he's one
awesome guy and he really feels like a brother to me. His first name is
even Jon. This week there hasn't been too many things happen; we've
been busy trying to build a foundation in our area since there aren't
very many LA's or members period in our area. Through our efforts
though we have been able to get four new investigators and they are all
progressing very well. It's amazing of how many finding opportunities
the Lord puts in our path, we just need to open our mouths and put away
all of our fears. I've finally gotten to the point where I'm not very
scared to go up and talk to people. Well it's also not that hard to
talk to people to because most Filipinos really want to talk to
Americans; so when I initiate the conversation they get even more
excited. But we also were able to have our Mission Tour this week and
President Ardern of the
70 and his wife came and spoke to us. There was such a strong spirit
in that meeting that it was hard not to have a stronger desire to become
a better missionary and person in general. That meeting made me
realize of how much that I really need to improve on myself as
missionary. I know that everyone has faults but it doesn't mean that I
can't try to do my best to be like the Savior; besides I am his
representative and I need to act like one. Well I love you guys so much
and I'm most grateful for all of the support that you've given me in my
life. Mahal Kita! Ingat Po (Take Care). May God be with you till we
meet again.
Monday, October 21, 2013
Dear Family and Friends,
It's
a really weird thought thinking that
I've already been on my mission for three months now. I better enjoy
ever second because the next time I blink I'll be on a plane heading
home. About the earthquake; I didn't hear about it for a while because
Elder Manicdo and I have been pretty busy this week. We are moving to
our are so we can maximize our time; it's hard to be effective if we
waste 40 minutes just traveling to our area. But I'm so excited to move
on Friday, I'll miss our kabahay's (house mates) but it's all for the
better. Our new apartment even has two bathrooms and two flushing
toilets!!! I have been so excited for that . I took a lot of things
for granted back in America, especially toilet paper, it's so expensive
here and it doesn't even work that well! But yes I have used the other
method and let's just say that I'm not very fond of that way.
Through
our efforts this week Elder Manicdo and I have obtained three new
investigators and they seem really excited to learn about the gospel.
Our teaching pool is pretty small so we've been doing a lot of
tracting. When we were looking for an apartment last week, Elder
Manicdo and I met a group of 5 guys who reminded me a lot of the Sandlot
gang. They're all around the same age (16-19) and they all live for
basketball. They hang out together as often as they can because they
all go to different schools. Here they start college at like 16-17
depending on if your school does the K-12 system. These guys are
pretty excited for us to move in and play basketball with them, they
said they wanted to see how good "white guys really are". On a
different note, Andrew has been improving more than I could have ever
imagined in my life. The other night we were teaching him about the
Holy Ghost and
when I extended the commitment to him to pray about the Holy Ghost he
said " I don't need to pray about the Holy Ghost, I feel him with me
right now". I nearly started to cry because of the strength of his
testimony. This young man is going to be one amazing priesthood holder
when the time comes and I know that he will do far greater things than I
could ever hope to do. I may be a missionary but he has taught me more
than I have taught him. The lessons that I have learned on my mission
far out weigh any other decision that I could have possibly made after
graduating High School. I'm so grateful for all of the influences in my
life that have helped me make my decision to serve this mission; times
may be rocky at times but I just have to remember to not lose my faith
in the Lord, because he won't lose His faith in me. I love you all and I
wish you the best of luck!! May God be with you till we meet again.
Monday, October 7, 2013
Well I have officially completed my first transfer in the mission! It's
a weird thought thinking that I'm already halfway through my training
now; it's a pretty exciting thought. But all I can say is that I hate
"Trunky Week". Apparently the week of transfers everyone just doesn't
want to do a lot so I'm stuck in the hot apartment while my companion
takes a nap for a while. Yeah I hope I don't end up doing that; I
already feel bad enough when I feel like I didn't give it my best that
day. But on the bright side one of our investigators (Andrew) is
progressing along very well! He's keeping all of our commitments and
he's attended all of the church meetings for two weeks in a row. Now
all he needs is to attend church for two more weeks then he can reach
his BGD. It's moments like these that make all of the hardships of a
mission worth it. Now for the language... eh well it's getting better
but it's still rough. I was finally able to play basketball for the
first time in the Philippines and boy did it feel great!!! Just to see
the ball go through the hoop (there wasn't a net) made me feel so
refreshed. FYI these Filipino's have some major talent!! Some of the
moves they do are just crazy, it's like I'm watching Nate Robinson
live. Well I love you Dad and I'm grateful for all the support that you
and Mom are giving me. Just thinking of you guys makes me even more
motivated to give it my all and to just forget about myself. I know
that the Lord will continue to bless us for the service that we lend to
His work. Mahal Kita!!! May God be with you till we meet again!
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